The two biggest mistakes men make with women is being needy and being insecure. These two are unfortunately prevalent in most men.
These two mistakes are very connected actually. Insecure men are usually needy. Needy men can be insecure. Neediness is when a man needs a woman so much that he can't hide it. He calls her all the time, he tries to control her, he follows her everywhere, he never gives her space, etc. Those kind of men turn women off big time. The truth is that most men that you consider cool are actually some of the neediest guys around. A lot of guys do bad things in the world because of this. Rape and violence against women usually stems from extreme neediness of the man. The man is desperate to have the woman, and the woman gets turned off by the second. Women can't explain why they feel this, they just do. Guys who ares successful with women aren't needy.
If you are needy, stop it immediately. Control what you show to women.
Let's talk about insecurity now. Insecurity is not only when a man is not confident enough to decide something. Most macho men out there are insecure. When you see guys driving fast to impress women, they are usually insecure. Men who brag in front of women are also insecure. Any men trying to prove something positive about himself in front of a woman is insecure. I think that there's even more insecure guys out there than needy guys. Where as neediness is portrayed as normal by the media, insecurity is portrayed as less normal. Still, it is very present in most men. A confident man has nothing to prove to a woman.
Confident men don't need to brag about anything. Their personality and their results speak for themselves.
These two mistakes are very connected actually. Insecure men are usually needy. Needy men can be insecure. Neediness is when a man needs a woman so much that he can't hide it. He calls her all the time, he tries to control her, he follows her everywhere, he never gives her space, etc. Those kind of men turn women off big time. The truth is that most men that you consider cool are actually some of the neediest guys around. A lot of guys do bad things in the world because of this. Rape and violence against women usually stems from extreme neediness of the man. The man is desperate to have the woman, and the woman gets turned off by the second. Women can't explain why they feel this, they just do. Guys who ares successful with women aren't needy.
If you are needy, stop it immediately. Control what you show to women.
Let's talk about insecurity now. Insecurity is not only when a man is not confident enough to decide something. Most macho men out there are insecure. When you see guys driving fast to impress women, they are usually insecure. Men who brag in front of women are also insecure. Any men trying to prove something positive about himself in front of a woman is insecure. I think that there's even more insecure guys out there than needy guys. Where as neediness is portrayed as normal by the media, insecurity is portrayed as less normal. Still, it is very present in most men. A confident man has nothing to prove to a woman.
Confident men don't need to brag about anything. Their personality and their results speak for themselves.
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